Ok, last month after two years of trying and 2 failed IUIs my husband and I decided to give it a break for a while. I never thought I was stressed but as soon as we decided this it was like a ton of pressure was released. It felt wonderful to just relax and breathe with out thinking of baby, baby, baby. We've had all the tests SA, Lap, HSG, Blood work and everything is fine, I'm only 30 so we felt we had a bit of time before we needed to jump into IVF. Well anyway, today is day 36 and I haven't started my period nor do I feel like I'm about to. Before clomid/femera I didn't ovulate every month and my cycles were 28-34 days. I took a pregnancy test and it was negative. This didn't surprise me because I don't even think we BD anytime around when I should have ovulated. I'm guessing I didn't ovulate this month but where is AF? Last cycle when I started my period I passed a large gray tissue substance and some of the women thought it might have been a MC. It wasn't like a normal clot at all. It was hard. If this was a MC does that mess up your cycle? Also I've had EWCM for 2 weeks on and off again. I had some just yesterday! When I was on the meds I had it 1-1 1/2 days top. What do you think is going on here?